We were wakened this Saturday morning before 7 a.m. by the phone ringing next to my head. Phone calls like that can only mean trouble. Either Mom’s going bad, Nina’s father having health issues, or Vivian having some sort of problem.
Sure enough and unfortunately, I was right in my fear. Turns out Vivian is on the line, telling us that she just had a guy standing bent over her and touching her while she was asleep! WTF !!??
After the initial flurry of words and us not really understanding, being still half asleep, it turns out that Viv’s ‘new’ neighbor forced her bedroom door and entered the house. She woke up when he touched her, and he fled, hiding outside. Vivian saw him and TALKED to him, saying he couldn’t hide! Dumb or brave? I stick with the latter.
THIS is the point where I as a father (or as a husband if it were the case) am wishing that we would NOT have gone all softy in this country and society. This is the point where I have to admit that some of those gun nuts DO have a point. This is the moment in time I’d have put a bullet in the chamber, slid the safety catch forward and would have confronted the bugger with the fact that NOBODY touches my daughter and/or wife.
I might not have shot him on the spot, but I sure would have made VERY certain that he’d gotten my point….. and find another place to live SOON!
Instead…. I had to advise my daughter to call the police (who actually turned up, which is a small miracle in itself nowadays). Police came and in fact arrested him, Vivian went to the station to file complaint. The guy was drunk, and maybe stoned as well, who knows. Doesn’t matter and is no excuse in MY book !
rant on
The problem of course is that he’ll get his wrist slapped at most and that’s the end of it!
We can NOT make him ‘physically aware’ of what his place in society is. We’d get arrested.
We can not even put his name on the Internet, telling the world about the trash he is….. we’d get fined (yes, happened a few months ago here).
We can’t even get a judge to make him leave and find a stone to crawl under…. there are no such laws anymore.
Chase him out of the city in tar and feathers….. that’s what I would like to do….. after I’d smack him one on both of his eyes, that is !
But no, we now live in a country where even real criminals, murderers and worse get put in an ‘open institution’ where they are allowed to ‘go shopping’ once a week, or go home over the weekend. And where authorities are subsequently truly amazed that such people evade their (civil and unarmed) ‘guards’, and commit another rape or murder (happened 3 times over the past 12 months already) !!!
Am I angry?? You bet I am!
Am I being unreasonable? Well, maybe. But I have lately come to the conclusion that we have been way too ‘reasonable’ for many years now, adding injury to insult in many cases for the rightful and law-abiding inhabitants of this country.
With countries getting crowded, social ‘control’ diminishing, criminals getting free play and intimidating even the bravest of honest people it is high time we step up to the plate and change our laws, put some tax money towards protecting ourselves instead of some goat herder in Africa or Afghanistan and get things back on track!
/rant